Huma Abedin, wife of the chronic philanderer and disgraced politician Anthony Weiner, has been through enough. And now Weiner has dragged her into another sexting scandal. But there are things you should never say to anyone who’s been cheated on. It doesn’t help to ask why they never left their partner. You never devalue them, or ask why they picked their partner. You never assume they could have fixed it by being better lovers. It doesn’t get into the real problem. The most important thing is to listen.