Divorce and death are two events in our lives that can be devastating. However, they are only so if you let them be. There is a time to grieve and feel sorry for yourself, but letting it last forever is letting it control you. That does not mean that you should get over that person and move on to dating. It means thinking about what you want for yourself and doing what makes you happy. The first months after these events are the hardest, but you must move forward in order to live your life to the fullest.
- Timing can be excruciating and painful sometimes when it feels like life hands you one heartbreak after another, but in hindsight, I can see how all these pieces were working together to teach me what I couldn’t learn any other way.
- There are tears in his eyes still when he talks about her sometimes, and there was not yet grass fully on her grave. I
- And at first it is all terrifying and depressing, but then you break through that initial moment, and it liberates you from everything that tied you before.
“A few months after her passing, the seasons finally changed, and fall weather arrived in Georgia on the first day of October.”