Are you offering unsolicited advice and then you realize your conversation becomes totally disconnected? Sometimes we push others away unintentionally. Many times others aren’t looking for advice but an attentive ear. Learn how to help others in a way that strengthens your relationship and helps themselves find the answers they are seeking.
Key Takeaways:
- When these types of responses occur, often I hear that they are not welcomed by the recipients since their comments were not intended to be invitations for opinions or advice.
- People do not necessarily want advice when they recount a dilemma
- Attentive listening is often more therapeutic than any unsolicited advice
“The points to be remembered here are: People do not necessarily want advice when they recount a dilemma Attentive listening is often more therapeutic than any unsolicited advice It is always a good idea to ask before offering advice.”
https://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/moments-matter/201608/unsolicited-advice