Do you ever wonder why we tend to over think relationships? We often analyze every encounter and text message. In our minds we question what the other person’s intentions are with us. This overthinking often leads many to feel like they need to protect their selves with the thoughts of past hurts creeping in the back of their minds. Find out more to the actual reasoning behind over thinking and how to accept your truth.
Key Takeaways:
- Working to hard at trying not to make a mistake in a relationship can hurt the relationship.
- Evaluating and Analyzing a relationship too much means that you are not giving it 100% of you but makes you feel more powerful and secure than partner
- Only you know what’s true in his heart of hearts. By focusing outward, the relationship, you can ignore any uncomfortable awareness about what’s going on inside his own heart.
“If you’re overthinking a relationship, ask yourself what’s at stake here. What would it cost you to make a mistake? If the cost would be great, no wonder you’re trying to avoid it.”