It does no one any good to have an affair. Going outside the marriage for intimacy can really hurt your partner. This has been the cause of many divorces because forgiveness is so hard. You can spice things up with your own spouse, though. You can even role play and pretend you are having an affair but that’s it. Cheating with anyone else is a terrible decision. If ou are tempted remember what the consequences could be.
- It is important to treat your spouse as if it was your first date or someone you would want to impress, like wearing something cute around the house that you normally would not
- Trying to get away from discussing only financial needs or everyday tasks is healthy for a couple and it’s good to take time to focus on romance
- It is important to remember that your spouse is attractive and to at least attempt to remain attractive to your spouse by putting in effort into your appearance every now and then
“Therapists say nothing livens up a couple’s sex life quite like channeling those hot-and-heavy early days through role playing.”