Does he or she always blame other for the problems or short comings? Does it seem like they cannot take even the most constructive critique or criticism with out it destroying their self esteem or self worth? How can someone so arrogant really be this easily hurt. Whats the cause? https://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/the-legacy-distorted-love/201608/the-destructive-force-narcissistic-injury
- While the narcissist may act arrogant and haughty and put on a show that nothing bothers them, this facade makes it difficult for you to see their inward self-loathing.
- When narcissists feel that they have lost or they feel rejected or abandoned, they don’t forget it.
- The counter attacks and force of disdain and rage from the narcissist can feel like you are being bullied with no restraint.
“Narcissists are not enough in touch with their own feelings to move on. The issues remain in their mind as “It’s all your fault.” “How could you do this to me?” They want to strike back.”