Love and a good intimate connection in a relationship do not guarantee a good sex life. Experts in the field state that many people who are unhappy with their sex life with a partner are comparing it to past experiences. In the beginning of a relationship good sex is easy. Kids, jobs, stress, and life in general can quickly take the spark from a couple’s sex life. Couples must be willing to invest thought and effort into maintaining a good sexual relationship. This is an important factor in a successful marriage or long-term relationship.
Key Takeaways:
- Sex, like politics, is one of those topics where everyone has an opinion. Yet unlike politics, what you see is no guarantee of what you’ll get.
- Many conservative people have non-traditional sex lives (although perhaps with one person over a lifetime) and many liberal people are comfortable with traditional sexual behavior.
- Across the board is the belief that if a couple isn’t talking about their sex life, it can become dull, boring, and stale.
“When it comes to sexuality and sexual expression, some of us were raised in traditional families with traditional beliefs.”
http://www.yourtango.com/experts/melanie-gorman/how-have-lust-long-term-relationship