How do you reconcile with your ex after you have had a falling out with your spouse? One way that three women talk about is that you need to avoid the desire to hurt back about people. One suggestion is that you shouldn’t react just as painful things happen. What needs to happen is that people need to take a step back. The author writes that if you try to take this time to take a step back, you will get a better perspective and a better outlook at the situation.
Key Takeaways:
- People sometimes look at me like I have two heads when I suggest that divorcing partners need to find a way to work together as parents.
- In my books for parents, I offer all kinds of advice about what you can do to counter your understandable emotional reactions in divorce, not for your ex, but for your kids (and ultimately, for yourself too).
- Maybe I am just asking parents to do something that feels completely wrong emotionally but is completely right for their children.
“In my books for parents, I offer all kinds of advice about what you can do to counter your understandable emotional reactions in divorce, not for your ex, but for your kids (and ultimately, for yourself too).”
https://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/divorced-children/201608/reconciling-parents