Many people can agree that being generous is a very good trait to have but they cannot agree on if sexual generosity is a virtue as well. In some couples, the man and the woman seek love outside the relationship and may have numerous other love makers. This allows for both people to seek the satisfaction they want.
- There are two major types of sexual generosity (1) actively involving oneself in undesired sexual interactions with one’s partner, and (2) passively allowing one’s partner to get sexual satisfaction with someone else.
- The first type is present when one is ready to engage in sexual interactions with one’s partner, even though she does not really want the interaction and is highly unlikely to enjoy it.
- In the second type of sexual generosity, the agent is more passive, allowing the partner to be active in seeking sexual satisfaction somewhere else
“The major benefit of generosity in romantic relationship is not that you get something from your partner, but that the two of you have established a positive atmosphere that can nurture profound loving relationships.”