The woman in the article is dealing with a crisis. The husband she once thought she fully knew came out to her as a Transgendered female. The “husband” wants her to stay in the marriage and make things work out. They also have 2 small children they are concerned about. The wife doesn’t want to leave the husband. But the wife doesn’t want a lesbian lover either. The article also points out how it effects you physically when your relationship changes in such a dramatic sense.