In Jennifer Kunst’s article relating to conversations, she speaks on ways to improve your conversation with others regarding politics. She speaks on the current state of the country as there has been a rise in violence as well as a rise in terrorist attacks. She then suggests using these tips when conversing with people in your social group about politics. One of the tips she mentions is to minimize projection as well as splitting which can often come when you feel anxiety or fell pressure. In addition, always remember to stay civil and respectful.
Key Takeaways:
- The antidote to splitting and projection is to recognize our commonalities by acknowledging our own limitations and trying to see the good in others. When we see ourselves and others as complex, whole people, there is a greater likelihood of coming together productively.
- It is far more helpful to try to contain those impulsive, negative, conversation-killing comments, and stay with the conversation a little longer, with a cooler head. This allows more time for something productive to emerge.
- Ask intelligent questions. Try to really understand where the other person is coming from. Approach the conversation with an expectation that you might learn something that would help you more fully understand a complex situation.
“The antidote to splitting and projection is to recognize our commonalities by acknowledging our own limitations and trying to see the good in others. When we see ourselves and others as complex, whole people, there is a greater likelihood of coming together productively.”