Divorce is hard, but it is even harder for children. They always tend to lead themselves down a sled doubt path of destruction where they blame everything on themselves. Right now they need support more than anything and as a family friend that knows the kids you could help them better than anyone else right […]

Brainwashing is not something everyone who does it is conscious of. It can happen after a divorce if one parent says bad things about the other in front of the kids. Sometimes it is deliberate and sometimes it’s not but it’s harmful to the child either way. This gives advice on how to deal with […]

Fifty percent of marriages end in divorce. Sixty-seven percent of all second marriages end in divorce. As high as these figures are, what is also true is that the divorce rate appears to be dropping. The reasons for this change are not clear. Many people cannot afford to divorce, many people cannot afford to marry. […]

Finding the words to comfort a friend or loved one going through a divorce can be difficult. It’s easier to narrow down what NOT to say. Do not say that they looked great together or that you can’t believe they are getting a divorce. do not compare their relations ship to one of your own […]

Getting finances together for a divorce is no easy task. Taking advice with a grain of salt, tracking all expenses and preparing for future expenses, and gathering documentation are key to making the transition smoother. Preparing for resistance from the other side is also important as emotions will be high and each side will want […]

Narcissism is hard to deal with. It makes it hard to have any kind of relationship with someone who has this trait. Co-parenging with them would also be hard. Narcissists tend to think they’re always right and that it always has to be their way or nothing in every siguation and parents need to be […]

A very talented illustrator captures the thoughts and images; out of the mouths of babes, when they are asked to describe what love is! Cute and comical, these little tykes come up with some very original answers. Who would have thought?……”A Scorpion inside of a lollipop”! The kids have fun with this; you can tell […]

Are we creating a history worth studying for future generations? History a study of previous actions or inactions of the people that came before us. These actions are choices based upon each individual. Though it may not seem like it now each and every choice of action or inaction that you choose or don’t choose […]

Abusive relationships are keeping up with modern times and technology. Are you aware that it is possible to digitally abuse your partner? Things such as controlling your partner’s social media accounts, sexually harassing them online, and demanding all of their passwords are considered sexual abuse. Other things such as coercing an individual into sexting or […]

I have been through several relationships in my life, which broke up mostly because of my subconscious self sabotage. What follows is not just a theory of a relationship-related self sabotage. It is an insight into the actual workings of the subconscious – self-sabotage-creating – psychological mechanism, which ruins human relationships. The rejection which you […]