Some studies have recently been done to determine the top reasons couples divorce. Reasons include infertility, incompatibility, substance abuse, lack of commitment, fighting a lot , or just growing apart. People often play the blame game and it goes too far to reconcile the marriage. The most successful marriages consist of two people who work together to commit to make the marriage work, ensuring each partner does their part to keep the marriage successful. Those considering marriage need to be prepared to work at keeping together as well.
- Most marriages do not survive a cheating spouse. The emotional pain is to much to over come.
- Drug addiction is another common reason for divorce. This jeopardizes physical safety as well as fiscal safety.
- Changes in values and believes can cause you to grow apart eventually leading to divorce
“People often do not know themselves or what they expect and desire in a mate at age 18.”