When starting to feel hopeless or overwhelmed in a relationship, this article provides seven steps to mending your dating life.Natalie David, a marriage and family therapist, tries to find a solution to help you get into a happy and healthy relationship when dating has become exhausting. Some of these steps include simple problem solving steps such as, writing down a list of pros and cons of what you might avoid or be attracted to in a partner, knowing what your looking for before going on a date, and even knowing that you are not the only person going through a dating rut.
- People are sometimes so worried why they haven’t found someone that they often forget what or who it is they are even looking for.
- Making a pros and cons list about what type of person you think best suits you is a good way to help you realize the type of person you want to be with.
- You should take your time and not rush into things especially if you are not for sure that it is in fact what you are looking for.
“If you find that you are interested in someone early on in the dating process, remember that it takes time to get to know anyone.”