After spending many years in love, with someone, it is not easy to accept that things are just not the same, and that you soon will part ways through a divorce. Don’t thnk there won’t be any emotions there, no matter how bad things have went. You shouldn’t put those feelings in your pocket because they’ll haunt you later. Besides, there are many ways to deal with your divorce peacefully, including these 7 steps here. Use these during and after your separation.
- Live in the present. Yesterday is done it is behind you leave it there. Focus on today.
- Live based on your core values. You are not who your ex said you were. You are who you choose to be. Choose wisely.
- Focus on the positive. What you focus on is what you become.
“Most people tend to think of forgiveness as something you grant to the other person. I disagree. To me, we don’t forgive people because they deserve it. We forgive because we deserve it.”