Parents should make joint decisions when it comes to laying down rules and discipline. If they are not united, the children will learn to manipulate this. Make time for the marriage so that the children can see the results of maintaining healthy, stable relationships. Do not try to compete with the other parent for the child’s favor. Showing affection in a healthy way will demonstrate to children the joys of marriage. Do not be afraid to fight or argue in front of your child, as long as it is healthy discussion. Do not speak poorly of other parent to child.