Divorce is an unpleasant experience that no one enjoys going through. Sometimes you do not have any say in your partners decision however, most people seem to be able to find consolation with other divorced people. Even though it is a painful experience you can choose how you respond to the situation. Taking time out to enjoy your life is what you should focus on. There will always be problems but how you respond to those problems will shape your life.
- One devastated writer expressed his feelings about divorce by comparing them with death.
- Writer, Jackie Pilossoph, who remembers the death of her father as being far more emotionally taxing than her divorce did not agree, but is nonetheless empathetic.
- Another writer noted that though divorced he did simple, enjoyable things each day, unlike the dead, and invited the sad, divorced man to try to do likewise.
“The pain of divorce can be unbearable. Your ex can do unspeakably horrible things to you. The process can seem really, really unfair and exhausting. And, the regret you might feel can make things seem hopeless.”