You sometimes need to resist the urge to always put your partner or friends first and set boundaries for yourself in your relationships. You should be able to say no without any reason why, you don’t need to explain yourself. You need to accept that you can not please all of the people all of he time, your decision is yours don’t let people who don’t matter to you impact your decisions. Finally, don’t let anyone’s craziness or issues be about you, it’s their personal issues not yours.
- Be willing to say no. You don’t owe an explanation to anyone.
- You have your own issues and concerns. Don’t make them someone else issue.
- Priorities who and what matters. Don’t waste energy on people or things that are low on this list.
“When it comes to making decisions ― large or small ― there’s always this universal fact no matter what you decide: You won’t please everyone.”